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Bored to Death? (Part 2)

How We Consume Media

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Topics: Arts & Media


Do we shape our media, or do our media shape us? Stay tuned for the disturbing answer, next on BreakPoint.

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Eric Metaxas

By most estimates, South Korea is the most-wired society in the world. South Koreans “enjoy” virtually universal internet access at speeds and prices that Americans can only dream about.

But that access comes at a high price: By official government estimates, nearly two million South Koreans can be described as “internet addicts.”

Now, the words “addict” and “addiction” get thrown around a lot in contemporary culture, but what would you call the following: a Korean couple repeatedly leaves their apartment and goes to an internet café where they spend all night playing an internet game. One night they return to find their three-month-old daughter dead from malnutrition and dehydration.

This actually happened in Seoul. While it’s the most extreme case, the difference is one of degree, not kind. An episode of PBS’ “Frontline” showed South Korean kids at government-sponsored rehab centers trying, mostly in vain, to wean themselves from their dependence on the internet.

There are several lessons we can learn from the South Korean experience, but I will settle for just one: We would be wrong to believe that media is inherently value-neutral and that any harm stems from the way it is used.

To paraphrase Winston Churchill, we shape our media and afterwards our media shapes us. It does this not only by what it depicts and tell us, but in the habits and dispositions it inculcates in those who consume it.

I’m not saying anything new: in 1989, Ken Myers, in “All God’s Children and Blue Suede Shoes,” wrote that “Christian concern about popular culture should be as much about the sensibilities it encourages as about its content.”

Popular culture, with its emphasis on the new and immediate, reliance on instant accessibility and the casual, time-killing way it is usually consumed, is changing us — and not for the better: We are becoming less reflective, more impatient and easily-bored, to name but a few ways. The result is what Myers called a “loss of cultural memory, [and] a loss of commitment to the future and the past.”

Twenty-three years later, Myers seems, if anything, overly optimistic. Christians are adept at sniffing out objectionable content, but we are largely oblivious to the impact of media and popular culture on our sensibilities.

Take the easily-bored part: Do you compulsively glance at your smartphone screen while waiting in line? Of course you do.

Those of us with kids have no doubt noticed that “multitasking” doesn’t do justice to the way they consume media. The average American kid crams nearly 11 hours of media into 7.5 hours in front of screens: Consuming multiple media streams at the same time is becoming the rule rather than the exception.

It’s not that they are better at processing information — studies actually show just the opposite — it’s that they, like their South Korean counterparts, have come to somehow need the stimulation. Their threshold for “boredom” has been recalibrated by the media they — and we — consume.

It doesn’t have to be this way. Those of us over, say, forty, can remember a time when we weren’t staring at our phones in the checkout line. I don’t recall being particularly bored.

This isn’t nostalgia — it’s understanding that sensibilities that have been distorted can be straightened out. “How?” is the subject of our next broadcast. I hope you will tune in.

Further Reading and Information

The Most Wired Place on Earth
Frontline | April 14, 2009

A Diet of Popcorn (Part 1)
Eric Metaxas | BreakPoint | May 21, 2012

 


Comments:

do we have an owner's manual?
Here is how I read one line above when not paying close attention: 'we are largely oblivious to the impact of media and that popular culture OWNS our sensibilities.'
Bored
Good and true article. I did not allow my six year old son to play any video games until a couple of weeks ago. All of a sudden, this boy who had never had a problem entertaining himself uttered the deplorable word, the word he had never spoken before, "I'm bored." I nipped that in the bud. I have found that children can be quite resourceful if they are not given the option to veg.
Internet/Facebook Addiction
I decided after my significant other commented that I was spending a lot of time on the computer (instead of with him) to listen. I WAS spending a lot of time on the computer. I believe my 'addiction' started when I became unemployed and needed to scour the internet daily for a job..11 months of this was not always job hunting either. I found I was on Facebook 24/7, reading status' and seeing friends' pictures and postings, reading news posts, and playing several games. When I went back to work, I abstained from any frivolous internet activity due to possibly being scolded and losing the job. I discovered I wasn't being watched as much as I suspected by 'Big Brother' at work and the addiction slowly sneaked back into my routine. Excusing a little game playing during my lunch 1/2 hr ...er 1 hr...hmm, not busy maybe a game or two to rejuvenate my brain? You know how it goes! Yesterday I posted a status of taking a 'hiatus' from Facebook and gave my personal email address if someone needed me. Later I checked my email and friends were already missing my presence and wishing me well. Now it's disciplining myself to just 'check' the email and keep it to that without wasting hours of surfing! This is quite a test of my self-discipline at home and at work! I agree with Pat C.'s post above. This IS a growing IDOL. I challenge your readers to go a weekend without their laptop, computers, smartphones or televisions on...maybe this Memorial Day will be more memorable without all the media distractions and we can honestly learn to be quiet before the Lord and REALLY realize what an addiction/idol this is in our lives. I have.
Eric, loved your speech at the Feb Prayer breakfast and am enjoying your posts since Chuck's passing. Keep up the good work. Thank you and God Bless!
Internet Addiction
I heard your commentary this morning and just wanted to comment. I have an internet addiction that took over during a very stressful time in my life. It took me 6 months of accountability and prayer to break free from this addiction. I try (with today's exception :) ) to not use the internet at work at all, unless it's work related. I have found that even something as innocent (?) as checking my home email can lead to hours on the internet. Wasted time and certainly not honoring of God or my employer's trust.

I believe this is much more widespread than people think. And the younger generation may not be even aware of how wrong it is...since they have been raised with all these tools at their constant disposal. I find it such a waste of time, imagination and a growing idol.

I just wanted to encourage you to keep speaking the truth in love. Your voice of light in the darkness is needed, more than ever. Thank you.
Checkout lines, seriously?
I am over 50 and can remember vividly years of standing in checkout lines before I owned a smart phone.

I was bored silly.

Maybe it was a Type A/Type B difference, but neither is more virtuous than the other.